marriage!

funny how much time and money goes into planning the big day
how many times you fantacise about your new life together
then the day comes and it passes
and you live out reality
one day at a time.

for the married couple out there?
are there times when u've caught yourself wondering if you made the right decision?
marrying the person you chose?
ever wondered how different things may be had they not been the ones?

today i write to celebrate my husband...
and i have no regrets saying...
"yes, i have wondered more than once ...
if you trully were the one...
but each time...
i've had to come around and say
you've made my life so much better
yes i may nag you out of your bad habits
and complain endlessly when you don't do things my way...
but through it all...i remember
Luther Vandross' "I'd rather"...
and so I toast to you...our memories past and future to come!

"Love you hun".